Friday Saturday Sunday 8/12-14: Judgement.

Have you ever done something out of your comfort zone, just to try it on for size? Most of you I'm sure would say yes. Have you ever done something kinda strange and out-there, just simply odd? And have you instantly felt the judging eyes follow your every mood for at least half a minute after that?
What I'm getting at is that I think most everyone has been judged in their life here on earth.
Most of the time its un called for and not exactly fair. I know I personally feel judged often. It's not a fun feeling. At all.
I, myself, get kinda hot in the face, my stomach tightens, and my palms sweat.
I know, not on the need-to-know basis. I realize that we all take judgement differently.
Some people recoil and retract like a turtle back into its shell.
Others confront the problem person and ask what their problem with them is.
And then there's the people like me that are in the middle, that play it off like nothing has happened and paint on a happy face. For some people like myself, that's what comes naturally. It's easier than any other option.
Alright, anyways, ill reflect on some specific examples of judgemental situations.
1. When you laugh entirely too loud and tend to snort- unfair judgement. 2. When you fall flat on your butt or any other body part- unfair judgement.
3. When your clumsy- unfair judgement.
4. When your totally un cool and mean to someone misunderstood- fair judgement (why be a jerk? What did that person do to you?).
5. When you are on trial for a serious crime- fair judgement (they have a reason to judge you, its the law we're talking about here).
6. When you are trying so hard to catch a guy/girls eye- unfair judgement (its not their place to judge or business to get into).

My basic point is, most judgement shouldn't matter. It shouldn't get us down because its unfair. But the fact that it is unfair, upsets us. Why judge when you can just move on and not? I don't see the point.
Now, I'm not the best example. I judge before thinking too but I'm striving to be better. I want to put that away. I think we should all try to think before we judge.
Bless.

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